Do the words spiritual and journey
make you wanna throw things?
You're safe.
I just wrote a long poignant
stream of consciousness thing about mine
then blew it up.
It's too important to get it right,
plus I'm in the throes.
Here's a peek though:
my journey involves BRCA2,
physical challenges,
and feeling spiritually opened.
What has arrived with genetic test results
and surgeries is also an opportunity
to surrender.
So I am.
I'm still trying to be a light for my mom.
Honestly though I think I am failing
my BRCA2+ sister
who is blogging about her journey.
She's very brave. She wants all the info.
I keep hearing myself ask her
some version of 'will we ever discuss
anything other than 3-D nipple tattoos?'
I'm not sensitive or compassionate enough.
I'm too busy broadcasting my own needs and
hotflashing and seeking distractions.
I want to do better, and already I can tell
He's burning all kinds of unGodly crap
out of me.
Dude.
Is that what a hotflash is?
It is a humbling journey.
Even for
a girl occasionally clever
with 'silver linings within the suffering' schtick.
For a mama with her head in the clouds, painting
dreamy abstracts stoned high on buttercream.
For a Real Housewife of True Dork City,
who just angrily called her shih tzu a weenie
(#menopause).
For an ungraceful
lover of words who can't
pirouette for shizzle.
For a Sunbeam for Jesus with
doctorates in blogology and self-deprecation.
It's helpful to write this schtuff down
because it leads to discovery and leaves
me only a tad nervous that at this
juncture you are looking for a blunt
object to hurl at the screen
because it sounds an awful lot like
a spiritual journey post.
Just before my mom's surgery.
Thanks for all the hand holding.
I honor you for reading.



































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